use this card deck app.,

to ask great questions and identify missing conversations

Find powerful constructs from the philosophy of language like "speech acts" and "conversation types" in the green section.
Find powerful questions for understanding (blue section), possibilities (yellow section) and action (red section).
Consider your purpose, appropriate conversation types, speech acts, and questions. Then, have your missing conversations.
It will change your future. Ask James if you have questions. For more, read Henkin's fable: Conversation Innovation.